I called H***m to request for the delay & explained about the mistake made in the resume. I received an unfriendly sound like no.. no.. we won't gonna hire you because of this mistake. Then, fine lah.. I said thanks at the end of the conversation. Don't care much if it is not meant to be mine. What I care most is about my children!
Afternoon
My husband came home and we rushed out to the hospital at about 1.30pm for an ROP appointment on 2pm. Arrived around 2.30pm.
Somebody who is a doctor has advised me:
"tomorrow, bring along something to read eg magazines books etc while waiting..it is going to be long for sure..even if u doa sampai keluar air mata berdarah pun it will be long! ..and btw be grateful while medical care is still FREE here..next thing u know, u have to pay for them. the gov will happily quote how much the americans, the brits and the aussies are paying their medical bills...so i say dont complaint even if u have to wait for few hours...instead buy something nice (not neccesarily expensive) eg chocolates or something and give them to those underpaid and overworked doctors and nurses who sees your child, as tokens of your appreciation..ask them how are they doing, have they eaten lunch or something...i bet they'll give extra attention to you and your daughter...!"
So I bought these at a kedai runcit on the 2nd floor:
Crunchies is my favorite though it's d*** sweet! Hey.. do you notice those included are biskut biji asam & biskut jem tersepit (I don't know what to call!)? Ini stock cerita lama ni... remind me a lot of memories.
While waiting:
Less than 10 people! 2 cute babies for ROP. Good... Syafiah was examined by Dr. SR (not me ok!) around 4.00pm. Dr. SR has noted Syafiah has have both optic disc palor. Hope it won't be that severe. Oh! You should go to the noon clinic! I'm so glad.. In fact, my husband didn't have to take full day leave!
Dr. SR called Dr. S, explained.. bla bla bla.. Dr. S asked her to write a referral letter to paed clinic. She brought this letter to a nurse, that nurse then led us to paed clinic which located at the same place - door to door.
When we arrived, Dr. T was speaking to Dr. S on the phone about us. Dr. S was actually in the NICU. There stood another paed specialist, Dr. N. After a few discussion, we agreed that Syafiah should be admitted to the ward. When asked Dr. T where has Dr. IH gone, she said, "Dr. I cuti.. cuti yang panjangggg!". To my surprise, my hubby told me that he'd be on leave for one year! Wonder why?
Syafiah has been admitted to 8c ward (paed ward). Waited for a while in the ward, took her weigh (5.525 kg today), blood pressure & also temperature. All okay. After speaking to Dr. KC, he called the neurologist to ask for his opinions on Syafiah's case. CT scan would only be done on Wednesday, thus if we want, we'll have to stay for another 2 days. Meanwhile, do nothing except wait!
He kindly said that we should go home first as Syafiah is no longer under the care of paed clinic. She should be under the care of neuro team. Now between these 2 - hospital & home - which one do you prefer? Ding dong ding dong.. while waiting for him to issue a referral letter to neuro, we were eating 6pm heavy meal & borak-borak with other mothers there. Mom A is a mom with an infection's baby, Mom B is a mom with a down syndrom baby (plus jantung berlubang) and a newly arrived Mom C with a cramped baby! And surprise again, Mom B is married to my husband's senior who are at my age! Orang sekampung rupanya....
Dr. KC has released us around 7pm after meeting his patients and we've to go there again tomorrow morning to see the neuro who I supposed to be either Dr. T/Dr. S/Dr. E/Dr. Y anytime after 9am.
Puzzle huh! So many doctors!
Now, I would like to say thank you to the following:
1. Dr. A - an eye resident who advised us as quoted.
2. Dr. SR - an eye specialist who took the initiative and care for Syafiah's condition.
3. Dr. S - a paed specialist in NICU. Still remember how she touched my shoulder on the 3rd day after Syafiah was borned to console me.
4. Dr. T - a paed specialist in the paed clinic. We used to see her at NICU too.
5. Dr. N - a paed specialist. Never knewn him before. His gaya is like a computer programmer with a bag on his shoulder.
6. Dr. IH - paed HOD who is now going on leave for a year!
7. Dr. KC - a paed specialist. A broad shoulder and tall guy. Kinda a funny also!
8. Dr. T - a neurologist. A handsome and nice guy!
9. Dr. E - a neurologist. "Sabarlah", pat on my husband's shoulder."
Not to forget:
10. Dr. ZAR - an O&G & fertility specialist. Always meet him at Section 9 especially when eating time!
11. Dr. NN - an O&G and medical director.
12. Dr. RI - a paed specialist. Muka iras-iras Haliza Misbun, only she looks cuter and wearing scarf! Live in Bukit Jelutong with husband and the one and only boy.
13. Dr. F - a paed specialist.
14. Dr. K - a paed specialist. "Hoi budak botak!" he said to Adam.
And to all doctors in the world. I know how much time you spend not for your personal. Sacrifice a lot! BIGGEST THANKS!
By the way, there'll be a "Hari Jururawat Peringkat HSB" with the guest honnor - TSKI on this coming Wednesday (thanks to the nurses too.. especially in NICU). Hey.. we should create one day for the doctors too. Have you ever heard of it? Ermmm.... I never heard of it...
I feel and I know that my girl will go for an operation latest by this week. It's important for her brain. I should not be panicked.. there's a lot more to come in our life - be it, good or bad. This is just a piece of it. Pray that she'll just be ok and can tahan to fast for 8 hours before the operation. More importantly, she'll safe and survive. Allah.. please help her..
I know that you're strong, girl!!

23 comments:
Godspeed, to sue and syafiah and family. My prayers be with u... :)
my prayers too, Amin...+ be strong!!!
ps that was nice of you to buy something for the doctors! well done!
and good luck for the CT + the op (if needed)..my prayers as always ...and be strong!!!!
Good luck untuk Syafiah !
Dah pandai pegang botol sendiri ya. Good girl !
sue;
akak doakan semoga syafiah cepat sihat. wah panjang sungguh hang membebel dlm post nie...
sorry about the interview. takpe takde rezeki kat situ, mesti ada kat tmpt lain lak. mak mentua akak slalu pesan kalo nak murah rezeki buatlah solat dhuha selalu...insyAllah! lagi satu, amalkan ayat seribu dinar - mmg power ayat ni. asben akak dpt keje kat tmpt baru ni sebab amalkan membaca ayat ni tiap2 hari
get well soon ya..n be strong babe!
*HUGS KUAT-KUAT*
InsyaAllah our prayers are with you! Insya-Allah Syafiah will be okay. All are well in the end.
Ramai betul doktor and it's good for you to share the doctor's word. Appreciating others adalah amalan mulia, underpay or not.
Can I have your email add?
tgk mknn yg dbagi tu,terliur jek aku..
hahaha...
by the way,x penah jumpe syafiah..
teringin!
tau2 jek dh masuk wad balik eks..
papepun,wish her to be strong like her mom:)
sue... my pray with ur little angel syafiah....hope ure strong too...
masya-Allah... Syafiah sgt cute pegang botol tu. bergenang air mata sy tgk dia sbb dia cute sgt! (xleh tgk baby kiut2 tingat kat hafiy ms baru2 lahir hahahahah).
comelnya syafiah tido... macam hafiy... (mak ni ha duk rindu kat anak sdr yg nyenyak tido kat atas sana).
semoga Syafiah cepat balik umah ye & sihat2 hendaknya. dia mmg survivor yg sejati di kala keadaan gawat2 ni :D
you go girl!
Kami doakan yg baik baik untuk ko sekeluarga... Amin.
Sue,
Kak ija ni baru dan baca blog awak.. dah miss few entries dah.. anyway.. u take care yer.. am praying for the best for your whole family... amin....
salam,
ramainya doktor yang berjasa , semoga sukses buat mereka semua.
akak doakan agar syafiah akan sembuh sepenuhnya dan yang penting usaha dan terus berusaha demi kesihatan syafiah .
cium buat si comel tu .
moga segala urusan di permudahkan. Insyallah.
siannyer syafiah tewww..
semoga syafiah cepat baik dan sihat selalu... sedih tengok kalau syafiah sakit tauu...
hrp mama dgn papanya byk bersabar yee..dugaan allh yg maha besar nie...
semoga dipermudahkan semuanya..
syafiah is a strong girl..
Salam Sue,
Havent heard from you in my nor your blog for quite a while already... everything ok ke? Harap2semuanya baik2 belaka untuk Sue dan keluarga...
>>> intan:
thanks... she's safe.. alhamdulillah.
>>> jingga studies:
"be strong" that's just what i need. tq bro... "nice" ke membodek? hek...
>>> cikliah:
sejak balik spital ni bukan takat pegang botol, gelak pun dah pandai.. & dia dah macam nak turn over sebab kepala dia ringan sikit.
>>> kak kc:
syafiah ni sihat.. cuma pale dia je beso..
bebel panjang2 rupa2nya nak tinggalkan blog seminggu.. kan petanda tu...
tq for the reminder, i mean the ayat.
>>> mama ranggie:
tq mama... really appreciate the support!
>>> kak onde-onde:
tq for the hugs! tapi kalau kena hug betul boleh menangis saya dibuatnya.
dah masuk spital ni.. list drnya makin bertambah -:)
mail me at suealeen@gmail.com.
>>> ~*Krsty_Pinky*~:
terliur eikk.. tapi masa dok dalam wad dah tak lalu nak makan. datang ler.. dia dah balik... aku tak kuat mana pun.. kekuatan tu datang dari Allah semata...
>>> kak iza:
secara mental masih kuat tapi fizikal dah fail ni.. demam selsema & kepala ni berat je...
>>> mami hafiy:
u should meet her personally. kadang macam tak percaya badan sekecil itu lebih kuat menerima ujian. & dia sebenarnya lebih cute dari abang & kakak dia masa depa kecik2 dulu.
"mak ni ha duk rindu kat anak sdr yg nyenyak tido kat atas sana" lain macam je ayat ni...
indeed, she's a survivor and a tough fighter!
>>> asr:
tq brader... moga doa ko makbul..
>>> kak ija:
tq for the pray, kak ija...
>>> kak rina:
list drnya makin bertambah ni...
kami sebagai pemegang amanah hanya mampu berusaha. yang selebihnya serah pada Allah swt untuk menentukan.
>>> mak farhah:
alhamdulillah.. memang Allah permudahkan segala urusan.. thanks!
>>> me:
hang jangan la cakap kesian, me. sedih makcik tauu!
>>> mommy lily:
alhamdulillah dia sihat je... cuma dapat mild fever sket masa kat hospital. mgkn sebab aircond kot.
dari Allah jualah dugaan dan kekuatan itu datang. alhamdulillah.
>>> kak zar:
alhamdulillah.. dipermudahkan so far. she's a strong girl indeed!
>>> kak ija:
ok je... kalau ada lappy dah tentu saya memblog dari spital je... ni tak de... thanks for caring!
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